Multi-Dimensional Sexuality

Multi-Dimensional Sexuality

Sexuality Alice Walker

For a long time we as a society, didn't talk about sex. It seems that it is the last frontier to finally come out of the closet, so to speak.

Sometimes I think sex is wasted on the young. The hormones are raging and then … wham, bam, thank you ma’am!

What about the possibility of Multi-Dimensional Sexuality?

As we become more evolved and mindful, some of us have been introduced to a different view of sex. Even our language around sex will change and we will begin using words such as “sacred” and “conscious” and “magical” when thinking about sex.

Instead of being purely a physical process, sexuality can be multi-dimensional. In its highest form, it will include not just the physical and emotional, but also the energetic and spiritual components.

Wherever two lovers are, there is God. Wherever two lovers’ energies are meeting and mingling, there is life, alive, at its best; God surrounds you. Churches are empty; love-chambers are full of God. ~Osho

Sacred sexuality brings God (Source, Higher Power, whatever word you want to use) into the bedroom and the result can be touch ecstasy. Instead of being the (typically) profane act of our adolescence, sacred sexuality becomes a holy act moving you into spiritual realms where you can touch God. Used in this way, sexuality can be seen as a doorway to the evolution of your soul.

Multi-Dimensional Sexuality

The Energy of Sexuality

For many years, my colleague Robin Trainor Masci and I taught “The Mystery and Magic of Sexual Energy” and I discussed it a bit in a previous article you can read here.  The traditional view (John Gray and others) is that men are more into quickies and women take a long time to be aroused. We disagree, however, based on our own and clients’ experiences: men and women can both be easily aroused if the life-force energy is high.

Sexual energy is just life-force energy concentrated in the sexual centers of the body (first and second chakras, the pelvic region). High levels of energy are magnetic and attractive, and people are much more attracted to strong life-force energy than external physical features.

Example…

One day Robin and I were with a friend whom I will call Blanche. At that time she was in her 50s, carried extra padding on her body, and wasn’t what anyone would call a physical beauty. Blanche’s energy was high, however, and because of that, she was radiant. The energy seemed to just ooze out of her and she glowed. As we walked through a restaurant to our table, every single person’s head turned as she walked by! Robin and I gasped as we watched…and it wasn’t just the men, the women all gazed at her too. High energy is very attractive and magnetic.

High Life Force Energy

Energy and Orgasm

Did you know that men lose energy through ejaculation and that it is entirely possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation? Did you know that women lose energy through menstruation and can actually build their energy through orgasm?

Although these concepts are often not discussed in the mainstream literature, there is a growing awareness and understanding about conscious sexuality.

Multi-Dimensional Sexuality

Tantra is a word used to discuss sexual energy, though it means a whole lot more. The authors that I am familiar with include David Deida, Margot Anand, Bodhi Avinasha, Charles Muir and Mantak Chia. There are lots more, for sure! They all discuss the energetic component of sexuality, and how to build and store energy through sex.

Something for you to try. You can choose to make better use of your energy and not waste it the next time you are sexual: Decide ahead of time where you’d like to send your energy. It can be personal – such as sending it to a body part that is in pain. It can be global – such as sending it to starving people in the world. Or somewhere in between. Then, at the point of orgasm, imagine that your energy is being sent there. Energy follows intent and, it is said, “energy flows where attention goes.”

Online Conscious Sexuality and Relationship Conference

I am thrilled that the subject of conscious sexuality will be discussed by over 40 experts during upcoming Online Conscious Sexuality and Relationship Conference. There is no charge and the line up of speakers is amazing. You can register by clicking here

I know that Tantra is one of the topics and there are so many more. I am very curious to see what the “experts” have to share with us. If this subject also interests you, make sure you register now at 

http://www.tinyurl.com/csrc333

Multi-Dimensional Sexuality

I’d enjoy reading your reaction to this article in the comment section below.

 

Love and Blessings,

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Comments

Multi-Dimensional Sexuality — 13 Comments

  1. Hi Meryl,

    Lovely to see this “out of the closet.” I wish there was this type of openness when I was a teenager, and later a young married woman. So much I didn’t know then.

    This is a refreshing new look at sexuality and all of its power. Imagine having the power to share that wonderful energy.

    You are such an inspiration.

    Love,
    Nancy

    • Thanks, Nancy…so nice to hear from you. Yes, I wish there was this kind of openness when I was a young married, too.

  2. Intrigued by your article. Surprised and pleased to see this information out in the open. Clearly can take someone’s sexuality to another level. Passing it on to a good friend who might be interested in the conference.

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  4. It is good to hear that people can speak openly about the subject of conscious sexuality. We didn’t have anything like this in my days…it was a no-no. The more informed, the better chances of having a loving relationship.

  5. I am so happy to see this topic being discussed so openly and positively. I have always felt (and known) that this is true, especially as I’m aging. But to see it print gives credibility and forcefulness to my thinking. Thank you so much for the continuing awareness and fairness, and willingness to write about a topic that is often kept secret.

  6. What an interesting article, there is so much I don’t know about enlightenment and sexuality. It is nice to see this written so open with no inhibitations.

  7. This is the paragraph that stood out to me, “Sacred sexuality brings God (Source, Higher Power, whatever word you want to use) into the bedroom and the result can be touch ecstasy. Instead of being the (typically) profane act of our adolescence, sacred sexuality becomes a holy act moving you into spiritual realms where you can touch God. Used in this way, sexuality can be seen as a doorway to the evolution of your soul.” God is the source of our sexuality.. He designed us to be sexual inside marriage.

  8. Loved the article, and my favorite part it was the “something for you to try”. Never thought that we could make better use of our energy. Interesting subject! I’m sure that the conference is going to be a success!

  9. Interesting article. For sure, having a soul to soul connection will heighten it’s power. We were designed this way and going outside of these margins is mediocre. I liked this: “Instead of being the (typically) profane act of our adolescence, sacred sexuality becomes a holy act moving you into spiritual realms where you can touch God. Used in this way, sexuality can be seen as a doorway to the evolution of your soul.” 🙂

  10. I feel there is nothing more extraordinary than sacred sexuality. I’ve pretty much always viewed it as such and when experiencing intimacy, it is always a full express of who I am body, mind, and soul merging with another. Quite a powerful thing. It is definitely a doorway to higher consciousness, as are many of the methods I discuss in my own teachings. Beautifully written and expressed. Great post!

  11. Really amazing information! I think some people catch on to this naturally and some seem not to do so, so it is great to see information out there about it.

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