Dealing with Low-Energy People
Many people are aware of the destructive effect of being with low-energy people. Today’s post offers help for dealing with challenging people.
The blog post a few weeks ago taught a method to bring in Universal Source energy — http://stopeatingyourheartout.com/2012/energy-being-being-energy/
And last week’s post dealt with monitoring your energy level –http://stopeatingyourheartout.com/2012/how-energized-are-you/
Now we will combine the two!
Sometimes you’ll find yourself with people who have low energy — whether it is from depression, illness, or any other reason. These people tend to pull on your energy. People who can see energy have described it as tentacles going into your third chakra to obtain some of your energy. Usually, this is not a conscious taking of your energy, but a desire of the energy body to take what it needs from whatever source is available.
So, energetically you are being used. Your energy is being taken and it often leaves you feeling tired and drained. If you are monitoring your energy level, you would be very aware that your energy dropped after spending time with a low-energy person. That person ends up feeling better – at your expense!
[Note: The people who pull on your energy or feed off of you are sometimes known as “energy vampires.” Since there is no harmful intent, I prefer to just refer to them as folks with low energy.]
SOLUTION: Remember to stay connected to Universal Source energy (bring the energy down through your crown and/or up through the soles of your feet). Breathe. Fill yourself with this Light/Love/Energy. Then send it to the other person from your heart. Remember, you are not sending your own energy so you will not become depleted. You are channeling energy from Source.
When you are with someone who is low energy don’t wait for your own energy to fall. Channel, channel, channel. Stay connected to Source Energy and keep it flowing from Source through you to the other person. The person with low energy is seeking an “energy fix.” If that person takes it from you, it will be like receiving a teaspoonful of energy and it is at your expense. If you channel Source energy, though, it is infinite and you both will end up feeling energized.
Before I knew this technique, I had plenty of experience feeling drained! One example that comes to mind: A relative was visiting me and she tends to be low energy. I remembered to channel (send energy) the whole time she visited and we both felt great. She had an early morning flight and I drove her to the airport. When I returned I wanted to take a walk, but I was so tired I took a 2 hour nap instead. I later realized that on the way to the airport I FORGOT TO CHANNEL! She took my personal energy, and I was totally drained. It was a dramatic reminder how important it is to stay conscious and stay in a channeling mode.
TIP: If you are with an ill, depressed, or other low energy person, don’t wait for your energy to plummet. Begin to channel Universal energy immediately, and keep channeling the whole time you are together.